Extroverts are often regarded as the life of any event. Their flamboyant, outgoing persona immediately makes them the center of attention everywhere they go. They have no problem striking up conversations. Be it with the clerk who you are buying groceries from or the old friendly grandma that lives 2 floors below you. Life without extroverts would certainly be boring. But what is it like to be involved with one of us? Having a relationship with an extrovert comes with its perks. Here’s our list of 10 perks of being involved with an extrovert.
1. There is never a dull moment in your relationship.
Extroverts always tend to be lively and energetic. You will always have things to do with your extrovert partner as they are always enthused and want to do something. An extrovert’s idea of fun is always wanting to go out and be around people. So, you can forget the awkward okay, so what do you want to do on our date conversation. Extroverts will always have some place or the other where they want to go and they will drag you there with them. Which makes for a pretty exciting relationship, not knowing what to expect next.
2. You will always be the center of attention.
Let’s face it, extroverts LOVE attention. They always want to be in the middle of things. Be it getting drunk and dancing in the middle of the club or a social gathering. Your extrovert partner will always take initiative and connect with people. This puts you in the middle of things with them. All eyes will be on you and that is awesome. Being the center of attention means getting free drinks because your partner is so funny or getting things done more easily just because people like who you are with. That is never a bad thing to have in any relationship.
3. They are great with communication.
Extroverts love speaking. They get energized by speaking. While most people eventually run out of things to say over a phone call, extroverts will keep the conversation going. If you are the silent person, that works just as well too. Extroverts don’t really mind if you aren’t as vocal as them. While it would be nice if you were, they would speak regardless. Because it is what they do. This leads to a healthier relationship as they will always be the ones initiating conversation. This especially works well because they usually end up apologizing first after fights.
4. You will never have trouble with anything as your partner always knows “a guy”.
You can forget about any plumbing issues or car trouble because your partner will always know a guy to fix it. Having a massive social circle comes with its benefits. Since your partner can strike up a conversation with anyone they will always know someone who gets these kinds of things done. It could be the nephew of that old lady they once met while at the supermarket or the neighbor of the bartender they struck up a conversation with. Extroverts will always know someone. Be it a shady banker or a straight edge cop. Knowing these kinds of people and having them help you out in a pinch is never a bad thing.
5. They carry on with their lives with or without you.
Like we’ve pointed out multiple times, extroverts will always have plans and if they don’t they make plans and execute them. They would love it if you went along with them, but if you don’t, they would go anyway. That is just the way it works with extroverts. They don’t like being isolated and alone. They feel comfortable when they are out and about. Doing things all the time. This gives both of you space which is healthy in every relationship. They would be out partying and socializing while you can do whatever you feel is comforting to you.
6. They are direct and they speak their mind.
If extroverts want to say something, they say it. They will not give you subtle hints or anything. They speak their mind. This puts your mind at ease as you won’t have to deal with any mind games. Extroverts are vocal and expressive, they tend to make grand romantic gestures to show their love and affection for you. They never keep you guessing how they feel about you. There is never a communication gap with them as they will directly tell you what they want to. This is always a healthy thing to have in a relationship.
7. They push you out of your comfort zone.
Unless you have an extroverted personality like your partner, you often have a bubble that you like to live within. Extroverts change this. They often tend to push you out of your little bubble of comfort. They push you to get into situations you would never be in without them. And this is a good thing for you. You do exciting things, meet new people and become a more social person in general. This often leads to more success and a healthier life both for you and your partner.
8. They make things happen.
Most people who are not extroverts tend to not act on their thoughts. They often second guess themselves and keep postponing things they want to do because they are too afraid. An extrovert often makes things happen for you. You might have always wanted to visit Europe but never actually went through with it. Your partner will go out of his way to make sure that that trip to Europe is not just a dream. They make an itinerary, book your tickets and drag you there if they have to. Extroverts don’t keep waiting, they do as they wish and this could help you achieve some of those dreams you’ve put on hold like your world tour or quitting your job and starting your own business.
9. They take the edge off of you.
Extroverts tend to dominate every social gathering with their charismatic and outgoing nature. This can be a good thing for you as this helps ease the pressure on you when you at an event where you really need to impress because they impress others for you. Their charm and humor can work wonders for you at a work gathering. Their friendly nature helps them gel well with your family members and they love them because they just get along. Extroverts always get along regardless of the circumstance. So, no matter the occasion you can always count on your significant other to step up.
10. The physical relationship is going to be mind-blowing.
Extroverts love physical contact. Most often they indulge in hugging, holding hands and kissing in public. Never shy to express themselves they do what they want to, wherever they want to regardless of their surroundings. The sexual relationship with an extrovert is also brilliant as they are never afraid to try something new and want to make sure both of you enjoy what you do. This leads to an amazing connection between you two which in turn leads to a long-lasting and healthy relationship.
You can quite as much see how your life can turn around completely by dating an extrovert. They make your life more exciting, push you out of your comfort zone, make your dreams come true and to top it all you will have a mind blowing physical relationship with them that is something you will cherish for the rest of your life.